Love Triangle?

According to this week’s Life & Style Magazine, which hits newsstands Wednesday, August 11, 2011, Kim Kardashian’s ex-boyfriend, Reggie Bush wants the famous socialite back, and won’t leave her alone.

According to the Life & Style article, Reggie Bush is distraught over Kim Kardashian’s impending nuptials to her NBA fiance Kris Humphries, so much so, that Bush has been bombarding Kardashian with pleading text messages, asking Kim to call off her wedding and consider taking Bush back. Nevermind the fact that Kim’s wedding is mere weeks away, all of the arrangements have been made, TV and magazine deals have been brokered, and Reggie Bush had ample time to step up to the plate and propose throughout their three year relationship.

According to Life & Style, “[Reggie's] been sending text messages to Kim and leaving her voicemails telling her she’s making a mistake, and he’s the one for her.”

The Life & Style article goes on to report, “In the past, Kim was friendly to Reggie, but now she’s stopped responding. He was begging her to call off the wedding and give him another chance.”

The article also claims that Reggie Bush is telling people close to him that Kim Kardashian is “the one that got away.”

Despite Reggie Bush’s alleged best efforts to win back his ex, Kim Kardashian is plowing full speed ahead with her over-the-top wedding to Kris Humphries, and of course turning her wedding into a lucrative business deal, complete with an E! television special that will reportedly be titled, “Kim’s Fairytale Wedding: A Kardashian Event” and a People Magazine spread.

We just hope Kim is getting married for love rather than business!

From working in public relations for over ten years and running my own public relations firm, Allison Dawn PR, for nearly seven years I have learned what makes client/publicist relationships work and what doesn’t.

The single most important thing to consider when choosing a public relations or marketing firm to represent your company is a shared vision with similar values. It’s really that simple. As a personal example, Allison Dawn Public Relations tends to gel most effectively with companies and organizations that share a vision of strong work ethics, corporate responsibility, philanthropy and a general awareness that public relations and publicity is a long term career, and not a single, short term project.

Building, polishing and cultivating a public image that will resonate with the media, potential consumers and with your industrty’s insiders requires ongoing strategic planning and public relations efforts that consist of: traditional public relations, community outreach, viral marketing, online social media, philanthropic outreach, impeccable customer service and ongoing branding indentification strategy.

When a client signs with my PR Firm, and says they just want as many media placements in magazines and on television as possible in the shortest amount of time, I can do that for them. I can blitz the media with their product samples or service and pitch their company ad nauseum, and our firm has a good track record at getting media placements, but in our optinion that is only part of the picture. One issue with “quick fix” publicity is that there has to be a strong news angle or “hook” to get a large amount of publicity in a short amount of time. Very often, and many PR Firms will not fess up to this, but if the brand is unknown this requires something of a circus trick. You have to make the brand, product or service seem as outrageous and novel as possible to generate media interest quickly. Does that help in the long run? It depends whom you ask.

What I often try to explain to clients is that a better way to attract positive media attention that will likely last and build over time is to spend the first part of the marketing and public relations campaign making the client newsworthy. Doesn’t that make sense? Creating a strong foundation and public relations platform that we can then go to the press with has long lasting results. For instance, if product placement and buzz in the celebrity weeklies like US Weekly, Life & Style Weekly or Star Magazine is what a client has set their sites on, well then we need to first set our sites on building a celebrity following. The press then follows and it has a more organic feel. That is why we love to work with celebrity stylists, personal publicists, costume designers, and the like.

If a client’s goal is to eventually link up with a high profile charity that is headed up by a well known entertainer or politician, well then don’t we need to establish a resume, so-to-speak, of philanthropic work that will impress that particular targeted person?

I could cite endless examples. The point is, don’t put the cart before the horse. Everyone will see what’s in your cart but it won’t go anywhere.